Catch a Cheating Lover

Infidelity, How My Marriage Made Me Do It

Ask someone why they had, or are having an affair and you may hear something like this: “I have […]

Cheating Spouse, Is Spying An Invasion Of Privacy

My, how the cheating spouse cries foul when he/she discovers you are spying. Outrage can be intense: “How dare […]

Signs Of A Cheating Spouse

The signs of cheating can vary for each individual. Some people are just plain better at deception than others. […]

Emotional Infidelity, A KEY Tactic To Save The Marriage

Hearing that your cheating spouse is “in love” with someone else is devastating. I hear often, “I can handle […]

Relationship After Cheating, Will It Survive…Maybe

The relationship after cheating has occurred is not a cozy place to be. Can it go on? Will it […]

Characteristics of the Adulterer

“I Want to Get Back at Him/Her” is one of 6 kinds of affairs I outline in my E-book. […]

If you have your suspicions that your partner is having an affair, but for your own peace of mind you need to be sure about the infidelity, investigation is an option but, before you go out and hire a private investigator, make sure that you know what you are getting yourself in to. There is no doubt that infidelity is one of the hardest things anyone ever has to go through and the period when the first suspicions develop is one of the worst. The not knowing, […]

Infidelity, Spying Is NOT Revenge

Do not use what you find on your cheating spouse as ammunition for revenge. Sure, you may have wonderfully violent fantasies of what you would really like to do to him/her and the other person. This is very normal. But, don’t act them out. Using what you find to extract revenge will only lengthen the time of pain and anger. It will undermine your integrity as a person, lower your personal standards and make you exceedingly unattractive. Resist the temptation to sling the mud! Keep what you […]

Cheating Husband Or Wife

When you spy on your suspected cheating spouse, please make sure you consider all the possibilities you might encounter and whether you can handle them. Have you considered the many situations that spying might uncover? Can you imagine the worst thing you might find? Predict what your response will be to the worst-case scenario. Are you ready? Here are some specific questions to ask: 1) Do I have friends I can count on for support if I discover the worst? Do they know I might need them? […]

7 Legitimate Motives for Spying

Should you spy on your cheating husband or wife? You believe you see signs of a cheating spouse. The need to know whether your spouse is cheating and EXACTLY what kind of cheating is taking place is often strong. There are a number of reasons why the drive to spy is powerful. Here are seven: 1. Trust is a big reason, not of your partner, but yourself. Probably for some time you have sensed something is different or questioned the change of behavior in your partner. Perhaps […]